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Are We Compatible?
A free two-person compatibility test. You answer, your partner answers separately, and you both see where your styles converge and diverge — without seeing each other’s answers.3 min · 16 questions · FreeStart - #2Trending
Dating Pool Calculator
Set your filters and watch the pool shrink. Official statistics, honest ranges, and the one filter doing most of the damage.1 min · Calculator · FreeStart - #3Trending
Vanilla Purity Test
How vanilla are you, really? Answer 60 quick yes-or-no questions about dating, social life, adventure and everyday chaos, and get your Vanilla Purity Score out of 100.3 min · 60 questions · FreeStart - #4Trending
Purity Test
Fifty yes-or-no questions about things you have (or have not) done. One score out of 100. 100 is untouched, 0 is a full life. Then send it to someone who will do worse.3 min · 50 questions · FreeStart Flirting Style Test
Fourteen statements, seven flirting styles — from the Subtle One to the Professional Ghoster. Two minutes, no sign-up, and a result your crush will recognise instantly.2 min · 14 questions · FreeStartWhy Am I Still Single?
A free, direct and funny 24-question quiz to find the pattern behind your single status — from “the Fortress” to “the Solo Season”. No account, instant result.4 min · 24 questions · FreeStart
Friends & groups
Put your group chat on trial.
Drop in a WhatsApp export. Your messages stay on your device. Wabiro finds the stats, the awards and the chaos.
- The YapperMost messages
- The Night OwlBiggest share after midnight
- The Conversation StarterOpens the most conversations
- The GhostQuietest member
For couples
Take it together. Regret it together.
One of you starts, the other gets a link, both of you see the result.
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Are We Compatible?
A free two-person compatibility test. You answer, your partner answers separately, and you both see where your styles converge and diverge — without seeing each other’s answers.3 min · 16 questions · FreeStart Is My Partner a Red Flag?
A careful, free test to sort what you observe in your relationship into healthy signals, zones to watch and concerning behaviours. No diagnosis, no verdict — a clearer picture, and what to do with it.5 min · 29 questions · FreeStartAm I a Red Flag?
A free 24-question test to spot the relationship patterns you may be overlooking — boundaries, jealousy, repair, communication and more. Instant result, no sign-up.4 min · 24 questions · FreeStart
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Am I a Red Flag?
A free 24-question test to spot the relationship patterns you may be overlooking — boundaries, jealousy, repair, communication and more. Instant result, no sign-up.4 min · 24 questions · FreeStart - Most sharedTwo players
Are We Compatible?
A free two-person compatibility test. You answer, your partner answers separately, and you both see where your styles converge and diverge — without seeing each other’s answers.3 min · 16 questions · FreeStart - Most shared
Dating Pool Calculator
Set your filters and watch the pool shrink. Official statistics, honest ranges, and the one filter doing most of the damage.1 min · Calculator · FreeStart
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Attachment Style Test
Twenty statements, about four minutes. See where you sit on the two dimensions researchers use for adult attachment — and whether that reads as secure, anxious, avoidant or fearful-avoidant.4 min · 20 questions · FreeStart - New
Vanilla Purity Test
How vanilla are you, really? Answer 60 quick yes-or-no questions about dating, social life, adventure and everyday chaos, and get your Vanilla Purity Score out of 100.3 min · 60 questions · FreeStart - New
What's My Yellow Flag?
Take the free 16-question dating quiz to find the small relationship habit that might make someone pause. Instant result, no sign-up; your answers stay in your browser.2 min · 16 questions · FreeStart - New
What Are My Beige Flags?
Find your most specific harmless habit in this 12-question beige flag quiz. Get a funny identity to share. Just internet culture, not a personality assessment.2 min · 12 questions · FreeStart
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What people mean by red flags, green flags and the rest
Short, sourced guides that answer the question in the title — each one ends at the test that answers the next question.
All guides- Yellow flagsYellow Flags in a Relationship: Meaning + ExamplesA yellow flag in a relationship is a behaviour or situation worth noticing and possibly discussing, but it is not automatically a dealbreaker. Context, repetition and how the person responds when you raise it help you understand what it means.4 min read
- Red flagsWhat is a red flag? Definition and examplesA red flag is a repeated behaviour that undermines trust, safety or respect in a relationship — such as monitoring, punishing silence, blame reversal or contempt. One bad moment is not a red flag; a pattern is.6 min read
- Green & beige flagsGreen flags in a relationship: what they actually look likeA green flag is a repeated behaviour that builds trust and safety: apologising without a "but", respecting a limit the first time, staying consistent in private and in public, and coming back to repair after a fight.4 min read
- DeluluWhat does delulu mean? Definition and examplesDelulu is internet slang for “delusional” in a light sense: believing a better story than the facts allow — that a story view means they like you, that a plan will happen because you can feel it. Harmless as optimism; costly when it makes you ignore what someone keeps doing.5 min read
- Talking it throughHow to communicate after an argument (without starting another one)Wait until you are both calm (at least twenty minutes), come back with one sentence that owns your part, describe the moment rather than the person, and agree on one small thing to do differently next time. Repair is a skill, not a mood.6 min read
- Attachment stylesThe 4 attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant and fearful-avoidantAttachment styles describe how people seek closeness and handle distance in relationships. Researchers measure two things — anxiety about rejection and avoidance of closeness — and the four styles are the four combinations: secure (low on both), anxious (high anxiety), avoidant (high avoidance) and fearful-avoidant (high on both). They are tendencies, not diagnoses, and they can change.6 min read
- Relationship healthHealthy vs unhealthy relationship: how to tell the differenceA healthy relationship is not one without conflict. It is one where both people can raise a problem without fear, disagreements stay about the topic, mistakes get owned and repaired, and each person keeps a life of their own. An unhealthy one is the reverse, repeated: problems cannot be raised, conflict escalates or goes silent, repair comes from one side, and one person’s world keeps shrinking.7 min read
- Group chatsHow to export a WhatsApp chat (iPhone and Android) — and what the file containsOpen the chat in WhatsApp, tap the contact or group name (iPhone) or ⋮ → More (Android), choose “Export chat”, then “Without media”. WhatsApp creates a .txt file (or a .zip containing it) with one line per message: date, time, sender name and text. Photos and voice notes appear only as placeholders.4 min read
- Texting effortWhat reply time can (and can’t) tell you about someoneReply time shows a habit, not a feeling. It is shaped by work, sleep, notifications, how someone uses their phone and what the conversation is about. Patterns over weeks — who usually starts, who asks questions, whether silences get restarted — say more than any single delay, and even they describe effort, not interest.5 min read
- Dating-pool mathsHow dating-pool calculators work — and why multiplying percentages misleadsA dating-pool calculator starts from a population and removes everyone who fails each filter. Most multiply national percentages as if filters were unrelated, which is wrong: marital status depends on age, income depends on education, and so on. Honest estimates apply rates inside age groups and give a range where filters overlap.5 min read
- Rarity & percentilesHow Wabiro percentiles work — and why we wait for real samplesOn Wabiro, a percentile compares your result with anonymous results of people who completed the exact same version of the same test — never with “everyone”. It appears only once at least 200 of them exist; before that, nothing is shown, because a small sample produces confident-looking noise.4 min read
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What is Wabiro?
Find out what nobody tells you
Wabiro is a set of short, original tests and tools about you, your dating life, your relationships and the people around you: questionnaires with a score or a profile, a two-person comparison, a group-chat analyzer and a dating-pool calculator. Each result comes with a card built for sharing. Rules are deterministic and public, answers and imported chats stay on your device, and statistics only appear once enough completed results are behind them.
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Is Wabiro free?
Yes. Every experience gives you a complete result for free, without an account: your score, profile, stats or verdict, and a card to share. Some experiences also offer an optional one-time report or unlock — labelled with its price, shown only after your free result, and it never renews. Separately, Wabiro+ is an optional subscription that connects your results over time; no free result depends on it.
Do I need to create an account or give my e-mail?
No. Nothing is asked before your result — no e-mail, no card, no sign-up. An optional account (magic link, no password) lets you recover a purchase on another device and, if you want, keep your Wabiro ID summaries across devices. Only Wabiro+, the optional subscription, requires one, because a subscription belongs to an account.
Where do my answers go?
Nowhere, by default. Questionnaire answers stay in your browser and results are calculated there; imported chats are analysed on your device and never uploaded. If you create a share link or buy an unlock, we store a short summary (a score, a profile or a few aggregate numbers) — never your individual answers or messages, and never in analytics.
Is this a psychological or clinical test?
No. Wabiro is a self-reflection and entertainment tool built on documented rules. It is not a clinical assessment, a therapy service or a professional relationship diagnosis, and it never labels anyone toxic, narcissistic or abusive. If you are worried about your mental health or your safety, talk to a professional.
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