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Relationship tests
Green flags, yellow flags, red flags — and which one you actually are.
Am I a Red Flag?
A free 24-question test to spot the relationship patterns you may be overlooking — boundaries, jealousy, repair, communication and more. Instant result, no sign-up.4 min · 24 questions · FreeStartIs My Partner a Red Flag?
A careful, free test to sort what you observe in your relationship into healthy signals, zones to watch and concerning behaviours. No diagnosis, no verdict — a clearer picture, and what to do with it.5 min · 29 questions · FreeStartWhat's My Yellow Flag?
Take the free 16-question dating quiz to find the small relationship habit that might make someone pause. Instant result, no sign-up; your answers stay in your browser.2 min · 16 questions · FreeStartAttachment Style Test
Twenty statements, about four minutes. See where you sit on the two dimensions researchers use for adult attachment — and whether that reads as secure, anxious, avoidant or fearful-avoidant.4 min · 20 questions · FreeStart
How these tests work
Every test here is free to take, takes a few minutes and needs no account. Results come from a public, deterministic method — the same answers always give the same result — and your individual answers stay on your device. They are for fun and self-reflection, not clinical assessments.
Read the methodsQuestions people ask
- What is a red flag?
- What are red flags in a relationship?
- What is a green flag?
- What is the difference between a red flag and a yellow flag?
- What does my red flag score mean?
- Can someone have both red flags and green flags?
- How is Wabiro’s red flag score calculated?
- What is the average Wabiro red flag score?
- What is a yellow flag?
- What are yellow flags in a relationship?
- How does the yellow flag quiz pick a result?
- What is an attachment style?
- What are the four attachment styles?
- What does fearful-avoidant mean?
- Can your attachment style change?
- How is the attachment style test scored?
Before you test
Understand what these tests measure
- Yellow flagsYellow Flags in a Relationship: Meaning + ExamplesA yellow flag in a relationship is a behaviour or situation worth noticing and possibly discussing, but it is not automatically a dealbreaker. Context, repetition and how the person responds when you raise it help you understand what it means.4 min read
- Red flagsWhat is a red flag? Definition and examplesA red flag is a repeated behaviour that undermines trust, safety or respect in a relationship — such as monitoring, punishing silence, blame reversal or contempt. One bad moment is not a red flag; a pattern is.6 min read
- Green & beige flagsGreen flags in a relationship: what they actually look likeA green flag is a repeated behaviour that builds trust and safety: apologising without a "but", respecting a limit the first time, staying consistent in private and in public, and coming back to repair after a fight.4 min read
- Attachment stylesThe 4 attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant and fearful-avoidantAttachment styles describe how people seek closeness and handle distance in relationships. Researchers measure two things — anxiety about rejection and avoidance of closeness — and the four styles are the four combinations: secure (low on both), anxious (high anxiety), avoidant (high avoidance) and fearful-avoidant (high on both). They are tendencies, not diagnoses, and they can change.6 min read
- Relationship healthHealthy vs unhealthy relationship: how to tell the differenceA healthy relationship is not one without conflict. It is one where both people can raise a problem without fear, disagreements stay about the topic, mistakes get owned and repaired, and each person keeps a life of their own. An unhealthy one is the reverse, repeated: problems cannot be raised, conflict escalates or goes silent, repair comes from one side, and one person’s world keeps shrinking.7 min read
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