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What’s your dating archetype?

Sixteen painfully specific statements, one of eight archetypes — Golden Retriever, Iceberg, Chaos Flirt, Slow Burn and more. Find yours, then find out what your friends got.

  • 2 min
  • 16 questions
  • Free
  • No account needed
  • Shareable

What is the Dating archetype?

The Wabiro dating archetype test asks you to rate 16 statements about how you actually date — reply speed, mixed signals, texting rules, how fast you fall — and matches you to one of eight archetypes: the Golden Retriever, the Iceberg, the Hopeless Romantic, the Chaos Flirt, the Slow Burn, the Protagonist, the Accidental Heartbreaker and the Strategist. Each statement feeds one archetype; the highest total wins.

How it’s scored

Each of the 16 statements is rated from 0 (not at all) to 3 (painfully accurate). Every statement feeds one archetype at full weight, and a few feed a second one at half weight. Each archetype’s score is its points divided by its maximum, as a percentage. The highest percentage is your archetype; the second highest is your “also close to”. Ties go to the archetype listed first.

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Possible results

8 possible results

Every result comes with a label, two strengths, three tells and a line to use.

  • The Golden Retriever

    Enthusiastic. Loyal. Zero poker face.

  • The Iceberg

    Ninety percent of you is below the surface.

  • The Hopeless Romantic

    Three dates in, you have named the dog.

  • The Chaos Flirt

    Fun at parties. Confusing in relationships.

  • The Slow Burn

    Friends first. Then friends for a while. Then… oh.

  • The Protagonist

    Every date is a scene. You are the lead.

  • The Accidental Heartbreaker

    You did not mean to. You never mean to.

  • The Strategist

    Three-date rule. Reply-time policy. Spreadsheet optional.

Questions people ask

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Is the Wabiro Red Flag Test really free?

Yes. The test gives you a complete result — your score, your level, your main pattern, two strengths, three patterns to watch, one action for today and a shareable card — for free, without an account. The premium report is an optional one-off purchase.

Do I need to create an account or give my e-mail?

No. Answers are stored on your device and the score is calculated in your browser. Nothing is asked before your result — no e-mail, no card, no sign-up. An optional account (magic link, no password) only exists to keep access to a purchased report from another device.

Where do my answers go?

Nowhere, by default. They stay in your browser’s local storage. If you create a share link or buy a report, we store your score, level and profile name on our servers — never your individual answers, and never in analytics.

What does the shared result card show?

Your profile name, your level, your score, a short line and an invitation to take the test. Nothing else: no answers, no dimension details, no personal data.

Is this a psychological or clinical test?

No. Wabiro is a self-reflection and entertainment tool built on documented rules. It is not a clinical assessment, a therapy service or a professional relationship diagnosis, and it never labels anyone toxic, narcissistic or abusive. If you are worried about your mental health or your safety, talk to a professional.

What’s your dating archetype?

Rate each statement on how true it is for the version of you that actually dates — not the version you describe to your friends.

Wabiro tests are entertainment and self-reflection, not clinical assessments, therapy or professional advice.