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Red Flag Green Flag game: 250+ behaviours to judge

The red flag green flag game: one behaviour, one verdict. 250+ situations about dates, partners and friends, from harmless to alarming, across six intensity levels. Judge them, then find out whether the community agrees with you once enough votes exist.

Play nowPlay in a Party Room

Free · no accountSolo or with friends5 min

How to play

  1. 1Pick an intensity.
  2. 2Read the behaviour.
  3. 3Call it: red flag or green flag.

One phone each, revealed together

Examples

A few cards from the deck (the family-to-hard end).

  • Red Flag or Green Flag

    Gives every houseplant a name and wishes them goodnight.

    Red flag / Green flagFamily
  • Red Flag or Green Flag

    Replies "k" to a three-paragraph message.

    Red flag / Green flagFun
  • Red Flag or Green Flag

    Likes their ex’s holiday photos at 2 a.m.

    Red flag / Green flagAwkward
  • Red Flag or Green Flag

    Reads your diary and quotes it during an argument.

    Red flag / Green flagHard
  • Red Flag or Green Flag

    Eats the last biscuit and puts the empty packet back in the cupboard.

    Red flag / Green flagFamily
  • Red Flag or Green Flag

    Calls their mum every single day.

    Red flag / Green flagFun
  • Red Flag or Green Flag

    Still calls their ex’s mum on her birthday.

    Red flag / Green flagAwkward
  • Red Flag or Green Flag

    Starts dating your ex a month after your break-up.

    Red flag / Green flagHard
  • Red Flag or Green Flag

    Forgets your birthday but never forgets their dog’s.

    Red flag / Green flagFamily
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Red Flag or Green Flag

Alone, it’s a reality check for your standards: judge each behaviour, then see whether you’re picky or everyone else is too relaxed. With friends, read it out loud and vote on three — the person whose green flag is everyone else’s red flag owes the table an explanation. In a Party Room, everyone votes on their own phone and the verdict is revealed at once, so nobody can copy their neighbour. Playing as a couple? Brave. Do it anyway, and start at a low level.

Intensities

  • FamilyGrandma-proof
  • FunSilly, never awkward
  • AwkwardCringe and embarrassing
  • HardProvocative, uncomfortable
  • Spicy 18+Adults only
  • Unhinged 18+Adults only, no limits

Levels 5 and 6 are for adults only: you confirm you are 18 or older before they are dealt.

Questions

How does the red flag green flag game work?

Each card describes something a date, a partner or a friend does. You decide whether it’s a red flag (run) or a green flag (keep them). Once enough people have answered a card, you see how the community judged it.

Can we play it as a group?

Yes, two ways: read the cards aloud from one phone and vote by hand, or open a Party Room so everyone votes on their own phone and the split is revealed together. Up to sixteen players.

Is it free? Is there an adult version?

Levels 1 to 4 are free with no account. Levels 5 and 6 are 18+, behind an age confirmation: part of them is free and the full 18+ deck comes with the Games Pass, a one-time purchase also included in Wabiro+.