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Dealbreaker or not? 160+ situations to rule on

Some things you can live with. Some end it on the spot. 160+ dating and relationship situations, each one a dealbreaker or totally fine — you decide, then see the community’s verdict once enough votes exist.

Play nowPlay in a Party Room

Free · no accountSolo or with friends5 min

How to play

  1. 1Pick an intensity.
  2. 2Read the situation.
  3. 3Dealbreaker or fine? Rule on it.

One phone each, revealed together

Examples

A few cards from the deck (the family-to-hard end).

  • Dealbreaker or Not

    Takes the cat’s side every time it scratches you.

    Dealbreaker / Fine by meFamily
  • Dealbreaker or Not

    Calls their mum every single day.

    Dealbreaker / Fine by meFun
  • Dealbreaker or Not

    Likes their ex’s holiday photos at 2 a.m.

    Dealbreaker / Fine by meAwkward
  • Dealbreaker or Not

    Reads your diary and quotes it during an argument.

    Dealbreaker / Fine by meHard
  • Dealbreaker or Not

    Insists on getting to the airport four hours before every flight.

    Dealbreaker / Fine by meFamily
  • Dealbreaker or Not

    Corrects your grammar in the middle of an argument.

    Dealbreaker / Fine by meFun
  • Dealbreaker or Not

    Still calls their ex’s mum on her birthday.

    Dealbreaker / Fine by meAwkward
  • Dealbreaker or Not

    Kisses someone at a party and confesses the next morning.

    Dealbreaker / Fine by meHard
  • Dealbreaker or Not

    Spoils the ending of a series you’re still watching.

    Dealbreaker / Fine by meFamily
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Dealbreaker or Not

Alone, it’s a fast way to find your real limits — usually stricter, or looser, than you thought. With friends, read one out and vote together: the “it depends” arguments are the best part, but “it depends” isn’t an answer. In a Party Room, each person votes privately on their own phone, then the split is revealed for everyone. As a couple, this one becomes either a great conversation or a very long one. Start at a low level and work your way up.

Intensities

  • FamilyGrandma-proof
  • FunSilly, never awkward
  • AwkwardCringe and embarrassing
  • HardProvocative, uncomfortable
  • Spicy 18+Adults only
  • Unhinged 18+Adults only, no limits

Levels 5 and 6 are for adults only: you confirm you are 18 or older before they are dealt.

Questions

What counts as a dealbreaker?

Anything that would make you end it — or never start. The game doesn’t decide for you: each card is a situation, and your vote is the only rule.

Can we play it as a couple?

Yes, side by side on one phone or each on your own phone in a Party Room for two. Fair warning: you will find out what your partner would leave you for.

Is it free?

Levels 1 to 4 are free, with no account. The 18+ levels need an age confirmation; part of them is free and the full 18+ deck comes with the Games Pass, a one-time purchase also included in Wabiro+.