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He’s a 10 but…: 200+ flaws to rate from 0 to 10

He’s a 10 but… he answers every text with a voice note. Still a 10? 200+ flaws to rate from 0 to 10 with a slider, across six intensity levels — then see how the community rated each one once enough people have.

Free · no accountSolo or with friends5 min

How to play

  1. 1Pick an intensity.
  2. 2Read the “but…”.
  3. 3Slide to their new rating, from 0 to 10.

One phone each, revealed together

Examples

A few cards from the deck (the family-to-hard end).

  • He’s a 10 but…

    cuts his spaghetti into tiny pieces with a knife

    Family
  • He’s a 10 but…

    replies to every text with a four-minute voice note

    Fun
  • He’s a 10 but…

    keeps a photo of his ex as his lock screen “because it’s a good photo”

    Awkward
  • He’s a 10 but…

    has dinner with his ex every Sunday, “as friends”

    Hard
  • He’s a 10 but…

    puts ketchup on everything, even on a cheese fondue

    Family
  • He’s a 10 but…

    hits reply-all on the company-wide email just to say thanks

    Fun
  • He’s a 10 but…

    compares your cooking to his mum’s, out loud, with a score

    Awkward
  • He’s a 10 but…

    mentions his three kids on the fourth date

    Hard
  • He’s a 10 but…

    still sleeps with the cuddly toy he had when he was four

    Family
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He’s a 10 but…

With friends, read the flaw out loud and have everyone call a number at the same time — the gap between a 9 and a 2 is where the evening gets good. In a Party Room, everyone rates on their own phone and the room’s average is revealed together. Alone, rate each one and see how far you are from the community. On a date or as a couple, it’s a sneaky way to learn what your partner would happily forgive, and what would send you straight to a 0.

Intensities

  • FamilyGrandma-proof
  • FunSilly, never awkward
  • AwkwardCringe and embarrassing
  • HardProvocative, uncomfortable
  • Spicy 18+Adults only
  • Unhinged 18+Adults only, no limits

Levels 5 and 6 are for adults only: you confirm you are 18 or older before they are dealt.

Questions

How do you play He’s a 10 but…?

Start from a perfect 10, add the flaw on the card, and decide what they’re worth now on a 0–10 slider. Then compare: with the community once enough ratings exist, or with your friends’ average in a Party Room.

Does it have to be a “he”?

The trend says “he”, but the flaws are written to fit anyone. Rate whoever you have in mind.

Is it free?

Levels 1 to 4 are free with no account. The 18+ levels are behind an age confirmation: part of them is free and the full deck comes with the Games Pass, a one-time purchase also included in Wabiro+.