Couples & dating
He’s a 10 but…: 200+ flaws to rate from 0 to 10
He’s a 10 but… he answers every text with a voice note. Still a 10? 200+ flaws to rate from 0 to 10 with a slider, across six intensity levels — then see how the community rated each one once enough people have.
Free · no accountSolo or with friends5 min
How to play
- 1Pick an intensity.
- 2Read the “but…”.
- 3Slide to their new rating, from 0 to 10.
One phone each, revealed together
Examples
A few cards from the deck (the family-to-hard end).
- He’s a 10 but…
cuts his spaghetti into tiny pieces with a knife
Family - He’s a 10 but…
replies to every text with a four-minute voice note
Fun - He’s a 10 but…
keeps a photo of his ex as his lock screen “because it’s a good photo”
Awkward - He’s a 10 but…
has dinner with his ex every Sunday, “as friends”
Hard - He’s a 10 but…
puts ketchup on everything, even on a cheese fondue
Family - He’s a 10 but…
hits reply-all on the company-wide email just to say thanks
Fun - He’s a 10 but…
compares your cooking to his mum’s, out loud, with a score
Awkward - He’s a 10 but…
mentions his three kids on the fourth date
Hard - He’s a 10 but…
still sleeps with the cuddly toy he had when he was four
Family
He’s a 10 but…
With friends, read the flaw out loud and have everyone call a number at the same time — the gap between a 9 and a 2 is where the evening gets good. In a Party Room, everyone rates on their own phone and the room’s average is revealed together. Alone, rate each one and see how far you are from the community. On a date or as a couple, it’s a sneaky way to learn what your partner would happily forgive, and what would send you straight to a 0.
Intensities
- FamilyGrandma-proof
- FunSilly, never awkward
- AwkwardCringe and embarrassing
- HardProvocative, uncomfortable
- Spicy 18+Adults only
- Unhinged 18+Adults only, no limits
Levels 5 and 6 are for adults only: you confirm you are 18 or older before they are dealt.
Questions
How do you play He’s a 10 but…?
Start from a perfect 10, add the flaw on the card, and decide what they’re worth now on a 0–10 slider. Then compare: with the community once enough ratings exist, or with your friends’ average in a Party Room.
Does it have to be a “he”?
The trend says “he”, but the flaws are written to fit anyone. Rate whoever you have in mind.
Is it free?
Levels 1 to 4 are free with no account. The 18+ levels are behind an age confirmation: part of them is free and the full deck comes with the Games Pass, a one-time purchase also included in Wabiro+.
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