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Dilemmas & votes

Christmas would you rather questions for the whole table

Dilemmas about presents, family dinners, decorations, snow and the relative who always starts a debate — for Christmas Eve, the office party or the group chat in late December. Family level for the kids’ table, higher once they’re in bed.

Free · no accountSolo or with friends10 min

How to play

  1. 1Pick an intensity.
  2. 2Tap the option you’d actually choose.
  3. 3Check the community vote, then defend yourself.

One phone each, revealed together

Examples

A few cards from the deck (the family-to-hard end).

  • Would you rather…

    open one present every day of December / open all your presents at once on Christmas morning

    Family
  • Would you rather…

    sit next to the uncle who argues with everyone at Christmas dinner / sit next to the aunt who keeps asking about your love life

    Fun
  • Would you rather…

    end up under the mistletoe with your boss / end up under the mistletoe with your ex

    Awkward
  • Would you rather…

    have snow every Christmas but no presents / have presents every Christmas but never any snow

    Family
  • Would you rather…

    do all the Christmas cooking / do all the Christmas washing-up

    Fun
  • Would you rather…

    get caught regifting a present to the person who gave it to you / get caught pretending to love a present you already sold online

    Awkward
  • Would you rather…

    work in the toy workshop at the North Pole / be one of the reindeer pulling the sleigh

    Family
  • Would you rather…

    get a present you hate and have to wear it in front of the giver / give a present you love and watch the person hate it

    Fun
  • Would you rather…

    introduce your new partner to your whole family at Christmas / meet your new partner’s whole family at Christmas

    Awkward
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Would You Rather

Alone, it’s the quickest way to find out how your brain works at 1 a.m.: answer, then compare with the community once enough anonymous votes are in. With friends, read the question out loud from one phone and make everyone pick before anyone explains — the explaining is the game. Want everyone on their own phone? Open a Party Room: friends join with a link, a QR code or a six-letter code, everyone votes in secret and the split is revealed at once. As a couple, switch to the couples pack and keep track of who flinched first.

Intensities

  • FamilyGrandma-proof
  • FunSilly, never awkward
  • AwkwardCringe and embarrassing
  • HardProvocative, uncomfortable
  • Spicy 18+Adults only
  • Unhinged 18+Adults only, no limits

Levels 5 and 6 are for adults only: you confirm you are 18 or older before they are dealt.

Questions

Can the whole family play?

Yes: at the Family level, the cards work for grandparents and kids alike. Pass one phone around the table, or let everyone vote on their own phone in a Party Room.

Is it free?

Up to level 4, entirely, with no account. Any 18+ Christmas card is behind an age confirmation, with a free part and the rest in the Games Pass.

How do you play Would You Rather?

Someone reads two options, everyone picks one — no “neither”, no “both” — and then you defend your choice. On Wabiro the phone serves the questions at the intensity you picked, on one phone passed around or on everyone’s phone in a Party Room.

Are the community percentages real?

Yes. A question only shows how people voted once enough anonymous votes exist. Until then you see nothing — Wabiro never makes up a percentage.