Dilemmas & votes
Christmas would you rather questions for the whole table
Dilemmas about presents, family dinners, decorations, snow and the relative who always starts a debate — for Christmas Eve, the office party or the group chat in late December. Family level for the kids’ table, higher once they’re in bed.
Free · no accountSolo or with friends10 min
How to play
- 1Pick an intensity.
- 2Tap the option you’d actually choose.
- 3Check the community vote, then defend yourself.
One phone each, revealed together
Examples
A few cards from the deck (the family-to-hard end).
- Would you rather…
open one present every day of December / open all your presents at once on Christmas morning
Family - Would you rather…
sit next to the uncle who argues with everyone at Christmas dinner / sit next to the aunt who keeps asking about your love life
Fun - Would you rather…
end up under the mistletoe with your boss / end up under the mistletoe with your ex
Awkward - Would you rather…
have snow every Christmas but no presents / have presents every Christmas but never any snow
Family - Would you rather…
do all the Christmas cooking / do all the Christmas washing-up
Fun - Would you rather…
get caught regifting a present to the person who gave it to you / get caught pretending to love a present you already sold online
Awkward - Would you rather…
work in the toy workshop at the North Pole / be one of the reindeer pulling the sleigh
Family - Would you rather…
get a present you hate and have to wear it in front of the giver / give a present you love and watch the person hate it
Fun - Would you rather…
introduce your new partner to your whole family at Christmas / meet your new partner’s whole family at Christmas
Awkward
Would You Rather
Alone, it’s the quickest way to find out how your brain works at 1 a.m.: answer, then compare with the community once enough anonymous votes are in. With friends, read the question out loud from one phone and make everyone pick before anyone explains — the explaining is the game. Want everyone on their own phone? Open a Party Room: friends join with a link, a QR code or a six-letter code, everyone votes in secret and the split is revealed at once. As a couple, switch to the couples pack and keep track of who flinched first.
Intensities
- FamilyGrandma-proof
- FunSilly, never awkward
- AwkwardCringe and embarrassing
- HardProvocative, uncomfortable
- Spicy 18+Adults only
- Unhinged 18+Adults only, no limits
Levels 5 and 6 are for adults only: you confirm you are 18 or older before they are dealt.
Questions
Can the whole family play?
Yes: at the Family level, the cards work for grandparents and kids alike. Pass one phone around the table, or let everyone vote on their own phone in a Party Room.
Is it free?
Up to level 4, entirely, with no account. Any 18+ Christmas card is behind an age confirmation, with a free part and the rest in the Games Pass.
How do you play Would You Rather?
Someone reads two options, everyone picks one — no “neither”, no “both” — and then you defend your choice. On Wabiro the phone serves the questions at the intensity you picked, on one phone passed around or on everyone’s phone in a Party Room.
Are the community percentages real?
Yes. A question only shows how people voted once enough anonymous votes exist. Until then you see nothing — Wabiro never makes up a percentage.
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