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Would you rather for couples: dilemmas to play together

Dilemmas about love, dates, exes, jealousy and living together, to play with your partner — or with your couple friends. Answer each one, compare, and find out what the other would really choose. Cute at the low levels, heated higher up.

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Free · no accountSolo or with friends10 min

How to play

  1. 1Pick an intensity.
  2. 2Tap the option you’d actually choose.
  3. 3Check the community vote, then defend yourself.

One phone each, revealed together

Examples

A few cards from the deck (the family-to-hard end).

  • Would you rather…

    have a friend who brings their new partner everywhere / have a friend who always cancels at the last minute

    Fun
  • Would you rather…

    read your crush’s mind for one minute / erase your most embarrassing moment from the memory of everyone who saw it

    Awkward
  • Would you rather…

    go back to your ex knowing exactly how it ends / start over with a stranger knowing nothing at all

    Hard
  • Would you rather…

    know the date of your next house move / know the date you’ll next fall in love

    Fun
  • Would you rather…

    kiss a frog that stays a frog / kiss a prince or princess who turns into a frog

    Awkward
  • Would you rather…

    text your ex ‘I still think about you’ / tell your next date ‘I still think about my ex’

    Hard
  • Would you rather…

    be the third wheel on every night out / be the only couple in a group of single friends

    Awkward
  • Would you rather…

    be ghosted after the best date of your life / get a written list of ten reasons there won’t be a second date

    Hard
  • Would you rather…

    say I love you first and hear only silence / hear it first and not be ready to say it back

    Awkward
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Would You Rather

Alone, it’s the quickest way to find out how your brain works at 1 a.m.: answer, then compare with the community once enough anonymous votes are in. With friends, read the question out loud from one phone and make everyone pick before anyone explains — the explaining is the game. Want everyone on their own phone? Open a Party Room: friends join with a link, a QR code or a six-letter code, everyone votes in secret and the split is revealed at once. As a couple, switch to the couples pack and keep track of who flinched first.

Intensities

  • FamilyGrandma-proof
  • FunSilly, never awkward
  • AwkwardCringe and embarrassing
  • HardProvocative, uncomfortable
  • Spicy 18+Adults only
  • Unhinged 18+Adults only, no limits

Levels 5 and 6 are for adults only: you confirm you are 18 or older before they are dealt.

Packs

Questions

How do you play would you rather as a couple?

Read the dilemma together and both answer before saying why — on one phone, or each on your own in a Party Room for two, so neither of you can copy. Then compare and talk.

Is the couples pack spicy?

Only if you want it to be. You pick the level: up to level 4 it’s free and not sexual; levels 5 and 6 are 18+, behind an age confirmation, with the full decks in the Games Pass.

Can we play long distance?

Yes. Open a Party Room, send the link or the six-letter code, and you’ll both see each dilemma at the same time, wherever you are.

How do you play Would You Rather?

Someone reads two options, everyone picks one — no “neither”, no “both” — and then you defend your choice. On Wabiro the phone serves the questions at the intensity you picked, on one phone passed around or on everyone’s phone in a Party Room.

Are the community percentages real?

Yes. A question only shows how people voted once enough anonymous votes exist. Until then you see nothing — Wabiro never makes up a percentage.