Dilemmas & votes

Hard would you rather questions: no easy way out

Level 4, all of it: money against friends, loyalty against comfort, betrayal, moral grey zones and crude choices where both options hurt. Nothing sexual, everything uncomfortable — and still entirely free.

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Free · no accountSolo or with friends10 min

How to play

1Pick an intensity.
2Tap the option you’d actually choose.
3Check the community vote, then defend yourself.

One phone each, revealed together

Examples

A few cards from the deck (the family-to-hard end).

Would you rather…
get €2 million while your best friend gets €20 million / get nothing at all, and neither does your best friend
Hard
Would you rather…
lie under oath to keep your best friend out of prison / tell the truth and visit them in prison every Sunday for ten years
Hard
Would you rather…
go back to your ex knowing exactly how it ends / start over with a stranger knowing nothing at all
Hard
Would you rather…
haunt your ex for all eternity after you die / be haunted by your ex for the rest of your life
Hard
Would you rather…
share your screen in a meeting with your dating app open / share your screen in a meeting with your application to a rival company open
Hard
Would you rather…
have your ex marry your sibling / have your ex marry your best friend
Hard
Would you rather…
have your funeral live-streamed with comments on / have your funeral turned into a roast by your friends
Hard
Would you rather…
text your ex ‘I still think about you’ / tell your next date ‘I still think about my ex’
Hard
Would you rather…
be cancelled for something you didn’t do / be cancelled for something you did and completely forgot about
Hard

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Would You Rather

Alone, it’s the quickest way to find out how your brain works at 1 a.m.: answer, then compare with the community once enough anonymous votes are in. With friends, read the question out loud from one phone and make everyone pick before anyone explains — the explaining is the game. Want everyone on their own phone? Open a Party Room: friends join with a link, a QR code or a six-letter code, everyone votes in secret and the split is revealed at once. As a couple, switch to the couples pack and keep track of who flinched first.

Intensities

FamilyGrandma-proof
FunSilly, never awkward
AwkwardCringe and embarrassing
HardProvocative, uncomfortable
Spicy 18+Adults only
Unhinged 18+Adults only, no limits

Levels 5 and 6 are for adults only: you confirm you are 18 or older before they are dealt.

Packs

Questions

Is the hard pack 18+?

No. It’s level 4: provocative, uncomfortable, sometimes crude, but never sexual. No age check, no purchase — it’s all free.

What’s the difference between Hard, Extreme and Spicy?

Hard is level 4 only: tough calls, no sex. Extreme digs into money, morality and dark humour from level 4 up to 18+. Spicy is the 18+ pack about sex and dating.

How do you play it with friends?

Read the dilemma from one phone and make everyone answer before explaining, or open a Party Room so votes stay secret until the reveal. Expect long debates.

How do you play Would You Rather?

Someone reads two options, everyone picks one — no “neither”, no “both” — and then you defend your choice. On Wabiro the phone serves the questions at the intensity you picked, on one phone passed around or on everyone’s phone in a Party Room.

Are the community percentages real?

Yes. A question only shows how people voted once enough anonymous votes exist. Until then you see nothing — Wabiro never makes up a percentage.