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Ex or next: would you rather questions about your exes

Get back with your ex or start over with a stranger? Dilemmas about exes, breakups, second chances and the people you swore you’d never text again. Painful, petty and very revealing — especially if an ex is in the room.

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Free · no accountSolo or with friends10 min

How to play

  1. 1Pick an intensity.
  2. 2Tap the option you’d actually choose.
  3. 3Check the community vote, then defend yourself.

One phone each, revealed together

Examples

A few cards from the deck (the family-to-hard end).

  • Would you rather…

    share a tiny hotel room with your boss / share a small tent with your ex

    Awkward
  • Would you rather…

    go back to your ex knowing exactly how it ends / start over with a stranger knowing nothing at all

    Hard
  • Would you rather…

    have your grandparents meet your ex and adore them / have your family keep inviting your ex to every birthday

    Awkward
  • Would you rather…

    haunt your ex for all eternity after you die / be haunted by your ex for the rest of your life

    Hard
  • Would you rather…

    have your life story written by your ex / have your life story written by your mum

    Awkward
  • Would you rather…

    have your ex marry your sibling / have your ex marry your best friend

    Hard
  • Would you rather…

    end up under the mistletoe with your boss / end up under the mistletoe with your ex

    Awkward
  • Would you rather…

    text your ex ‘I still think about you’ / tell your next date ‘I still think about my ex’

    Hard
  • Would you rather…

    send a happy new year message to your ex by mistake / get a happy new year message from your ex at one minute past midnight

    Awkward
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Would You Rather

Alone, it’s the quickest way to find out how your brain works at 1 a.m.: answer, then compare with the community once enough anonymous votes are in. With friends, read the question out loud from one phone and make everyone pick before anyone explains — the explaining is the game. Want everyone on their own phone? Open a Party Room: friends join with a link, a QR code or a six-letter code, everyone votes in secret and the split is revealed at once. As a couple, switch to the couples pack and keep track of who flinched first.

Intensities

  • FamilyGrandma-proof
  • FunSilly, never awkward
  • AwkwardCringe and embarrassing
  • HardProvocative, uncomfortable
  • Spicy 18+Adults only
  • Unhinged 18+Adults only, no limits

Levels 5 and 6 are for adults only: you confirm you are 18 or older before they are dealt.

Packs

Questions

Is it a good idea to play this with my partner?

Bold, but possible. Stick to the lower levels, answer honestly, and remember it’s a game. With friends, it’s simply hilarious.

Is it free?

Levels 1 to 4 are free with no account. The 18+ cards need an age confirmation; part is free and the full 18+ deck comes with the Games Pass (one-time purchase, also in Wabiro+).

How do you play Would You Rather?

Someone reads two options, everyone picks one — no “neither”, no “both” — and then you defend your choice. On Wabiro the phone serves the questions at the intensity you picked, on one phone passed around or on everyone’s phone in a Party Room.

Are the community percentages real?

Yes. A question only shows how people voted once enough anonymous votes exist. Until then you see nothing — Wabiro never makes up a percentage.